fix(i18n): allow core to load translations for a specific language on-demand

By default Elgg is loading only English and the language of the logged in user.
These two are not enough e.g. when we want to send a notification and the
recipient is using a third language. This fix makes it possible to load translations
for a specific language when necessary.

Refs #3151 
This change doesn't really fit into SemVer. Does someone object adding it anyway? Or can anyone think of a good workaround?