Custom groups

As discussed in the forum thread, this adds the ability to create and manage custom groups and the dwarves who love them.

Right click a dwarf name to add a new group, delete an existing one, or add/remove from a group. Works with multiple selections.

Group names are global, but dwarf/group assignments are per-fortress.

(Also has the fix for OS X and setuid detection; I can split that out if you want.)

I've never done any Qt before, so please don't be shy about pointing out where I've been dumb.
Dwarves can be in multiple groups, but I could keep a vector there. I'll see how it feels.