Force the client to always have com_dedicated 0
Lots of small changes to remove com_dedicated, it is now server.lanOnly
Fix a crash at startup with some compilers in Release mode
Delete Fences after they have been waited for.
Fix SIGSEGV on client disconnect before their building finishes construction.
Make daemon work out of the compile on mac

It used to not find some dynamic libs because the rpath
was only @executable_path, fixed it by adding the directories
in eternal_deps to the rpath

Conflicts:
	CMakeLists.txt