[#2234] Use QueryStringDecoder.decodeComponent to decode url-encoded data instead of Java's URLDecoder.

Motivation:
Previously, we used URLDecoder.decode(...) to decode url-encoded data. This generates a lot of garbage and takes a considerable amount of time.

Modifications:
Replace URLDecoder.decode(...) with QueryStringDecoder.decodeComponent(...)

Result:
Less garbage to GC and faster decode processing.
Make sure the local / remote InetSocketAddres can be obtained. Part of [#2262]

Motivation:
Make sure the remote/local InetSocketAddress can be obtained correctly

Modifications:
Set the remote/local InetSocketAddress after a bind/connect operation was performed

Result:
It is possible to still access the informations even after the fd became invalid. This mirror the behaviour of NIO.