fix missing SO_RCVBUFFORCE and SO_SNDBUFFORCE in mips socket.h
fix arm thread-pointer/atomic asm when compiling to thumb code

armv7/thumb2 provides a way to do atomics in thumb mode, but for armv6
we need a call to arm mode.

this commit is based on a patch by Stephen Thomas which fixed the
armv7 cases but not the armv6 ones.

all of this should be revisited if/when runtime selection of thread
pointer access and atomics are added.