nano: remove unrecognized configure switch

nano devel picks up ncurses via pkg-config, and neither stable or devel
actually use --with-ncurses. stable seems to pick up our ncurses either
way.
groff 1.22.3

Closes #391.
Closes #395.

Signed-off-by: Jack Nagel <jacknagel@gmail.com>
groff: apply patch to fix parallel build
grep 2.21
whois 5.2.2
lsof: fix build on Xcode-only systems

Fixes #398.
Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/master'