SPARK-1932: Fix race conditions in onReceiveCallback and cachedPeers

`var cachedPeers: Seq[BlockManagerId] = null` is used in `def replicate(blockId: BlockId, data: ByteBuffer, level: StorageLevel)` without proper protection.

There are two place will call `replicate(blockId, bytesAfterPut, level)`
* https://github.com/apache/spark/blob/17f3075bc4aa8cbed165f7b367f70e84b1bc8db9/core/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/storage/BlockManager.scala#L644 runs in `connectionManager.futureExecContext`
* https://github.com/apache/spark/blob/17f3075bc4aa8cbed165f7b367f70e84b1bc8db9/core/src/main/scala/org/apache/spark/storage/BlockManager.scala#L752 `doPut` runs in `connectionManager.handleMessageExecutor`. `org.apache.spark.storage.BlockManagerWorker` calls `blockManager.putBytes` in `connectionManager.handleMessageExecutor`.

As they run in different `Executor`s, this is a race condition which may cause the memory pointed by `cachedPeers` is not correct even if `cachedPeers != null`.

The race condition of `onReceiveCallback` is that it's set in `BlockManagerWorker` but read in a different thread in `ConnectionManager.handleMessageExecutor`.

Author: zsxwing <zsxwing@gmail.com>

Closes #887 from zsxwing/SPARK-1932 and squashes the following commits:

524f69c [zsxwing] SPARK-1932: Fix race conditions in onReceiveCallback and cachedPeers

(cherry picked from commit 549830b0db2c8b069391224f3a73bb0d7f397f71)
Signed-off-by: Aaron Davidson <aaron@databricks.com>