MT#10659 check-for-mysql add mysqlid parameter

On carrier installations we need to be able to check the second instance

Change-Id: I6b81ed9a1c0b9be0dbfea0a5f742aecaf3cbf018
MT#9285 [CARRIER] ngcp-sync-constants: add --force-grants option.

- removes node users before copying grants
- while at it, update password on already created user when copying grants

Change-Id: Ic15a7c27772a071d42e4e4d4bddd4204453b5be9