librustc: Fix up mutability in method autoderefs if incorrect, and

prefer `Deref` over `DerefMut` in all other circumstances.

Because the compiler now prefers `Deref`, this can break code that
looked like:

    let mut foo = bar.borrow_mut();
    (*foo).call_something_that_requires_mutable_self();

Replace this code with:

    let mut foo = bar.baz();
    (&mut *foo).call_something_that_requires_mutable_self();

Closes #12825.

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r? @nikomatsakis