Shared keepalive v3

Changes in V3:
- Adjust some coding style.
- Remvoe zero array in keepalive_shared_srv_t.
- Remove assert().
- Fix ngx_channel_handler().
- Ignore connections when its owner process is dead.
- Delete old shared memory when relaod Tengine.
- Update Copyright in ngx_lfstack.{h,c}
I don't think so.

It's meaningless to check the status of target process with two reason:
1) The status may not be synchronized.
2) If the pid has been changed, the status belongs to the new process.