tutorial: stronger wording in build instructions
Test fixes and rebase conflicts from rollups

PRs closed as part of this:

Closes #12212 r=alexcrichton
Closes #12215 r=brson
Closes #12246 r=pcwalton
Closes #12247 r=cmr
Closes #12251 r=brson
Closes #12255 r=alexcrichton
Closes #12257 r=alexcrichton
Closes #12258 r=huonw
Closes #12259 r=huonw
Closes #12263 r=kballard