WiP: Add uniter changes to support reboot

This PR adds the uniter changes needed to support reboot.

Depends on:

https://github.com/juju/juju/pull/707
https://github.com/juju/juju/pull/728
https://github.com/juju/juju/pull/744
https://github.com/juju/juju/pull/782
https://github.com/juju/juju/pull/833

not sure I follow here -- we still have to kill the process. If we can't do that it most certainly is an error...