[SPARK-3573][MLLIB] Make MLlib's Vector compatible with SQL's SchemaRDD

Register MLlib's Vector as a SQL user-defined type (UDT) in both Scala and Python. With this PR, we can easily map a RDD[LabeledPoint] to a SchemaRDD, and then select columns or save to a Parquet file. Examples in Scala/Python are attached. The Scala code was copied from @jkbradley.

This PR contains the changes from #3068 . I will rebase after #3068 is merged.

@marmbrus @jkbradley
either of the following is okay: `select("features".attr)` or `select('feature)`