Don't close the connection whenever Expect: 100-continue is missing.

Motivation:

The 4.1.0-Beta3 implementation of HttpObjectAggregator.handleOversizedMessage closes the
connection if the client sent oversized chunked data with no Expect:
100-continue header. This causes a broken pipe or "connection reset by
peer" error in some clients (tested on Firefox 31 OS X 10.9.5,
async-http-client 1.8.14).

This part of the HTTP 1.1 spec (below) seems to say that in this scenario the connection
should not be closed (unless the intention is to be very strict about
how data should be sent).

http://www.w3.org/Protocols/rfc2616/rfc2616-sec8.html

"If an origin server receives a request that does not include an
Expect request-header field with the "100-continue" expectation,
the request includes a request body, and the server responds
with a final status code before reading the entire request body
from the transport connection, then the server SHOULD NOT close
the transport connection until it has read the entire request,
or until the client closes the connection. Otherwise, the client
might not reliably receive the response message. However, this
requirement is not be construed as preventing a server from
defending itself against denial-of-service attacks, or from
badly broken client implementations."

Modifications:

Change HttpObjectAggregator.handleOversizedMessage to close the
connection only if keep-alive is off and Expect: 100-continue is
missing. Update test to reflect the change.

Result:

Broken pipe and connection reset errors on the client are avoided when
oversized data is sent.
Can't think of other cases. What's special about `Expect: 100-continue` is that the rejected request makes the request end abruptly and the client should start over with a new request (if not closing the connection).

So, if the header did not contain `Expect: 100-continue`, we should not reset the decoder.