Problem: FD_SETSIZE 1024 is too restrictive under Windows

Solution: increased to 4096 by default for all MSVC builds, for MinGW,
and for CMake.

Note: this is a speculative change, it needs confirmation before we
can keep it. Particularly, there is some doubt that changing this in
libzmq will affect upstream applications using libzmq.dll.
Merge pull request #1166 from hintjens/master

Problem: FD_SETSIZE 1024 is too restrictive under Windows
Fix test broken when we changed FD_SETSIZE.
Merge pull request #1168 from ricnewton/master

Fix test broken when we changed FD_SETSIZE.
Problem: issues with nodrop property

- not initialized before use
- name is nasty (boolean variables should not have negative names)

Solution: rename to 'lossy' and initialize to 'true'.
Added test cases to .gitignore
Merge pull request #1170 from hintjens/master

Fixed issues with xpub nodrop property
Problem: nodrop code is ugly

It's bad practice to start by testing all exceptional conditions
and then dropping through to the 'normal' condition. Apart from
being inefficient, it's deceptive to the user. Conditional code
should always try to show the natural expectation of the code,
with exceptional cases coming last.

Solution: clean up this code.
Merge pull request #1171 from hintjens/master

Problem: nodrop code is ugly