[SPARK-2784][SQL] Deprecate hql() method in favor of a config option, 'spark.sql.dialect'

Many users have reported being confused by the distinction between the `sql` and `hql` methods.  Specifically, many users think that `sql(...)` cannot be used to read hive tables.  In this PR I introduce a new configuration option `spark.sql.dialect` that picks which dialect with be used for parsing.  For SQLContext this must be set to `sql`.  In `HiveContext` it defaults to `hiveql` but can also be set to `sql`.

The `hql` and `hiveql` methods continue to act the same but are now marked as deprecated.

**This is a possibly breaking change for some users unless they set the dialect manually, though this is unlikely.**

For example: `hiveContex.sql("SELECT 1")` will now throw a parsing exception by default.

Author: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>

Closes #1746 from marmbrus/sqlLanguageConf and squashes the following commits:

ad375cc [Michael Armbrust] Merge remote-tracking branch 'apache/master' into sqlLanguageConf
20c43f8 [Michael Armbrust] override function instead of just setting the value
7e4ae93 [Michael Armbrust] Deprecate hql() method in favor of a config option, 'spark.sql.dialect'

(cherry picked from commit 236dfac6769016e433b2f6517cda2d308dea74bc)
Signed-off-by: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>
[SPARK-2814][SQL] HiveThriftServer2 throws NPE when executing native commands

JIRA issue: [SPARK-2814](https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/SPARK-2814)

Author: Cheng Lian <lian.cs.zju@gmail.com>

Closes #1753 from liancheng/spark-2814 and squashes the following commits:

c74a3b2 [Cheng Lian] Fixed SPARK-2814

(cherry picked from commit ac33cbbf33bd1ab29bc8165c9be02fb8934b1fdf)
Signed-off-by: Michael Armbrust <michael@databricks.com>