[Cookbook][Security] usage of a non-default entity manager in an entity user provider

| Q             | A
| ------------- | ---
| Doc fix?      | yes
| New docs?     | no
| Applies to    | all
| Fixed tickets | #4021

The cookbook on entity user providers for the Security component only
describes how to create an entity provider using the default entity
manager. This may not be sufficient enough if you have multiple entity
managers and therefore be eplicit with the entity manager to use in
the user provider.
I like it. It's updated.