[SPARK-4818][Core] Add 'iterator' to reduce memory consumed by join

In Scala, `map` and `flatMap` of `Iterable` will copy the contents of `Iterable` to a new `Seq`. Such as,
```Scala
  val iterable = Seq(1, 2, 3).map(v => {
    println(v)
    v
  })
  println("Iterable map done")

  val iterator = Seq(1, 2, 3).iterator.map(v => {
    println(v)
    v
  })
  println("Iterator map done")
```
outputed
```
1
2
3
Iterable map done
Iterator map done
```
So we should use 'iterator' to reduce memory consumed by join.

Found by Johannes Simon in http://mail-archives.apache.org/mod_mbox/spark-user/201412.mbox/%3C5BE70814-9D03-4F61-AE2C-0D63F2DE4446%40mail.de%3E