Work around the JVM crash that occurs when cipher suite uses GCM

Motivation:

For an unknown reason, JVM of JDK8 crashes intermittently when
SslHandler feeds a direct buffer to SSLEngine.unwrap() *and* the current
cipher suite has GCM (Galois/Counter Mode) enabled.

Modifications:

Convert the inbound network buffer to a heap buffer when the current
cipher suite is using GCM.

Result:

JVM does not crash anymore.
Motivation:

Currently when a new event loop is needed to register a channel our EventLoopGroup implementations just
use a round-robin like algorithm to choose the next event loop. Unfortunately this is not always good
enough as different event loops may become more busy than others over time. This is especially true when
an application handles different kinds of connections (long-living and short-living). This change allows
developers to plug in their own algorithms to choose the next event loop and to collect metrics about the
busyness of the event loops. See #1230

Modifications:

- TODO

Result:

- Developers can plug in their own algorithms into MultithreadEventLoopGroup constructors.
- Developers can gather metrics/feedback from the event loops and use the data in their custom algorithms.