charmload: some refactoring to address review comments

We add the capability for charmload to take parameters from the same
config file that charmd uses, splitting the config reading code into a separate
package to enable that.

We make the temp file for the archive inside the existing temp directory
for a slightly simplification of the code.

Various other changes as suggested in review.

Some tests will arrive in the next PR - for now, I've done
some verification on the command line.

This is quite likely if the error comes back from apache, squid or haproxy. In those cases we might want to know what HTTP status was or something to help debug it?