node: npm bump

Primarily an npm bump, sans revision because the one minor version bump
isn’t worth a revision for even with our new policy. Other than that,
fixes the HEAD to actually point at the main development stream,
depreciates the enable option, adds another line of note to the OpenSSL
situation, and slightly rewords the caveat to clarify the npm install
situation.

Closes #34084.

Signed-off-by: Mike McQuaid <mike@mikemcquaid.com>
node: update 0.10.33 bottle.