adding support for refreshes-except

@qq99 @nsimmons for review

So, replacing everything except the passed id works fine. The only thing here is that I'm not sure if we can find a better solution then replacing the whole body.

I only added the `refreshOnErrorExcept` because is the only one I need, should we add for success as well?

~~*Still need to test this on Shopify.*~~ :heavy_check_mark: 
oh chris. forgot to move this back when I removed the specific `except` trigger event. fixing it now.