Add support for distributed index joins

This is enabled via a config option and is default off.
Flush join indexes when memory is constrained

Add a separate limit for index memory usage that is independent of the task
memory limit. This removes the risk of the flushable memory usage causing
another operator to run out of memory.

The Loader will make the following attempts when loading:
1) Loading a batch of multiple requests, flushes cache if fails
2) Loading just the single required request, flushes if fails
3) Tries to load the required request with reduced number of positions by factors of 10
Make chr() work with unicode

* Update docs to reference chr() instead of char()
* Make chr() work with unicode code points instead of ascii code points to match the documentation