bsc: Fix use-after-free on OML NM messages from the BTS

Currently the sign_link pointer is dereferenced after a call to
osmo_signal_dispatch, which can indirectly call
e1inp_sign_link_destroy. If that happens, accessing *sign_link is
illegal and can lead to a segmentation violation.

Since only the bts pointer is needed from sign_link after the call to
osmo_signal_dispatch, this patch changes abis_nm_rcvmsg_fom to save
that pointer to a local variable earlier.

Addresses:
<0019> input/ipa.c:250 accept()ed new link from 192.168.1.101 to port 3002
SET ATTR NACK  CAUSE=Message cannot be performed
<0005> bsc_init.c:52 Got a NACK going to drop the OML links.
<001b> bsc_init.c:319 Lost some E1 TEI link: 1 0xb351a830
=================================================================
==13198== ERROR: AddressSanitizer: heap-use-after-free on address 0xb5d1bc70 at pc 0x80a6e3d bp 0xbfbb33d8 sp 0xbfbb33cc

Sponsored-by: On-Waves ehf
sgsn: Make authorization asynchronous

Currently the authorization of an IMSI is done by checking ACLs
synchronously which is not feasible when the subscriber data has to
be retrieved from an external source.

This patch changes this by using a callback when the information is
available. This is also done when only ACL are checked, in this case
the callback is invoked from within sgsn_auth_request(). The callback
function sgsn_update_subscriber_data calls sgsn_auth_update which
in turn calls either gsm0408_gprs_access_granted or
gsm0408_gprs_access_denied. gsm48_gmm_authorize is extended by a call
to sgsn_auth_request when IMSI and IMEI are available but the
auth_state is unknown.

The change has been successfully tested with a single phone (E71).

Sponsored-by: On-Waves ehf
sgsn: Do not die in _bssgp_tx_dl_ud on TLLI mismatch (TODO)

Currently an OSMO_ASSERT fails, if the message's and the mmctx's
TLLIs do not match.

This commit turns the assertion into an ERROR log message and uses
the default values for IMSI, DRX, and RA CAP instead of the MM
context values in this case.

TODO:
  - find the real source for the problem
  - add test cases derived from what is being described in the ticket

Ticket: OW#1322
Sponsored-by: On-Waves ehf
sgsn: Added TODOs (TODO)

TODO:
  - fix and remove TODOs
  - add test cases for Detach(reattach)
  - add test cases for PDP context deletion (OW#1311)
  - add test cases for Fix P-TMSI generation for repeated Attach Accept
    messages (OW#1322)
  - add test cases for Cancel pending timer in sgsn_mm_ctx_free
  - remove this commit

Sponsored-by: On-Waves ehf