lazutils: TMethodList: added AllowDuplicates, default false

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IDEIntf: added TAbstractIDEOptions handler destroy

git-svn-id: http://svn.freepascal.org/svn/lazarus/trunk@44332 4005530d-fff6-0310-9dd1-cebe43e6787f