make rest controller more generic to support additional workflows

| Q             | A
| ------------- | ---
| Bug fix?      | no
| New feature?  | yes
| BC breaks?    | no
| Deprecations? | yes
| Tests pass?   | yes
| Fixed tickets | #116
| License       | MIT
| Doc PR        | TODO

/cc @uwej711 

btw for the doc, this is using symfony http handling, meanign X-HTTP-Method-Override is supported as well.
you mean for new methods that we introduce in the bundle?

there is no general configuration for allowed methods. but each workflow we provide indeed should have a configuration to explicitly enable it to prevent unwanted manipulations after updating the bundle.