SERVER-14802 Fixed problem with sleepmillis() on Windows due to default timer resolution being typically higher than 15ms

All sleepmillis() calls with values lesser than timer resolution will sleep AT LEAST the timer resolution value, making Mongo be really slow on certain use cases. Like when implementing consumer/producer patterns using capped collections to stream objects back and forth
I've added the mmsystem include here because if I add it on top compiler bombs out with conflicting declarations in mongo's headers