Use `defined_enums` to fetch collection from enum

By using `defined_enums` instead of `.send(pluralized_method)`, only one
method is needed to implement enum support with form objects.

With gems like Reform, we need to define a new class method for each enum in my form objects if we want to use the enum detection. With that PR, only `defined_enums` is needed.
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