Upgrading the plugin to be NPI compatible

*Highly* recommend reviewing this with a w=1 flag as any file I touched with a tab/space mixture was standardized to spaces.

Making the MS SQL plugin NPI compatible:

- Build using v1 of the .NET SDK
- Remove installation logic from the plugin
- Update README to new template
- Refactor logging to standardize on Nlog
- Expose NewRelicConfig for customers that forego the Runner setup
- Standardize build process with other .NET plugins

* Also contains a fix for a support issue where replica_id was being cast from a uniqueidentifier database object to a string directly.

I haven't built the distributables yet since I wanted to wait for PR feedback, also we may want to hold off on this push until after NPI supports zip since building tarballs for Windows feels less than ideal.

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