ISPN-3530 ISPN-1855 Keep per-cache CH to route requests correctly

* fixed HotRodManagerIT tests: cannot pass null as cache name
ISPN-4472 Upgrade TestNG from 6.8 to 6.8.8
ISPN-3743

Ignore some of the errors that can be thrown by a node while stopping:
IllegalStateException and NullPointerException.