[SPARK-4569] Rename 'externalSorting' in Aggregator

Hi all - I've renamed the unhelpfully named variable and added a comment clarifying what's actually happening.

Author: Ilya Ganelin <ilya.ganelin@capitalone.com>

Closes #3666 from ilganeli/SPARK-4569B and squashes the following commits:

1810394 [Ilya Ganelin] [SPARK-4569] Rename 'externalSorting' in Aggregator
e2d2092 [Ilya Ganelin] [SPARK-4569] Rename 'externalSorting' in Aggregator
d7cefec [Ilya Ganelin] [SPARK-4569] Rename 'externalSorting' in Aggregator
5b3f39c [Ilya Ganelin] [SPARK-4569] Rename  in Aggregator