Themes: Only kill launchers if overlays or icons changed

There is no need to kill the launcher for every coponent changed.
The only ones that really concern us in regards to killing launchers
are MODIFIES_OVERLAYS and MODIFIES_ICONS

Change-Id: I840b8e2ecd4b52a33f352809c5d3d2c7e92ce85e
(cherry picked from commit cd793fcaa6e86635ec5a0f2a639751a9bb91aab6)