Scheduler reconnects

* Update the scheduler to reconnect to the controller if there is an error or if the channel closes, waiting 1 second if more than one connection attempt has been made since the last update
* Add `ExpandedFormation.UpdatedAt` so that the scheduler can ask for only the updates since the last formation it received an event for
* Make deleted formations appear to have no processes so that the scheduler will remove it's processes if necessary
If we keep the `deleted_at IS NULL` filter, we don't need to select `deleted_at`.