Mail address of users is now changable in the user management

* introduced new route settings/users/{id}/mailAddress
* kept old responses
* better error messages
* dropped lostpassword.php from settings/ajax
* cleaned up the UserList.add() and hand in user object instead of
  each attribute as another parameter
* check for change permission of mail address
* proper response messages
Merge pull request #12921 from owncloud/user-mail-user-management

Mail address of users is now changable in the user management