Migrate OC_Mail to SwiftMailer

This refactors OC_Mail to use SwiftMailer instead of PHPMail, furthermore this fixes the unit tests when running locally due to being able to mock the  mailing class. (#12014)

Requires https://github.com/owncloud/3rdparty/pull/143

@PVince81 @th3fallen @bantu @DeepDiver1975 Please review carefully. - Thanks!
https://github.com/owncloud/core/pull/12085/files#diff-2cc30d5c78dfe895d52e4e73bf6d759cR23