Track added size correctly

Patch by marcuse; reviewed by jbellis for CASSANDRA-7239
Fix more stress bugs (ninja)
Do not exit nodetool repair when receiving JMX NOTIF_LOST

patch by yukim; reviewed by krummas for CASSANDRA-7909
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Warn on startup if swap file enabled on Windows

patch by Josh McKenzie; reviewed by Philip Thompson for CASSANDRA-7316
SSL does not work in cassandra-cli.

patch by jasobrown, reviewed by beobal for CASSANDRA-7899
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Fix CONTAINS filtering on sets

We were comparing the index expression value with the cell values
instead of the cell names, which is where set values are stored.

Patch by Tyler Hobbs; reviewed by Benjamin Lerer for CASSANDRA-8033
Record the real messaging version in all cases in OutboundTcpConnection

patch by Aleksey Yeschenko; reviewed by Piotr Kołaczkowski for
CASSANDRA-8057
Fix Thrift slice deletions, incomplete cell names in updates

Patch by Tyler Hobbs; reviewed by Sylvain Lebresne for CASSANDRA-7990
Don't reset nodes' versions when closing IncomingTcpConnections

patch by Aleksey Yeschenko; reviewed by Marcus Eriksson for
CASSANDRA-7734
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
	src/java/org/apache/cassandra/net/IncomingTcpConnection.java
Force exit vs trying to cleanup all threads for stress
Add an assert to RowDataResolver#getData()
Schedule fat client schema pull on join

patch by Oleg Anastasyev; reviewed by Aleksey Yeschenko for
CASSANDRA-7993
Merge branch 'cassandra-2.0' into cassandra-2.1

Conflicts:
	CHANGES.txt
Don't re-parse already prepared statements

Patch by Benedict Elliot Smith and Tyler Hobbs; reviewed by Aleksey
Yeschenko for CASSANDRA-7923
custom exceptions should derive from Exception, not Throwable
ninja reviewed by yukim
Don't duplicate sstables smaller than split size

Patch by Changsu Jiang; reviewed by Tyler Hobbs for CASSANDRA-7616
Upgrade netty to 4.0.23 enable epoll

Patch by tjake; reviewed by Jason Brown for CASSANDRA-7761