ENH: use size instead of cythonized count for fallback cases

* use size instead of cythonized count for integer case since we cannot have
  `nan` in that case
* not faster perf wise
* compilation time is shorter because count has no int templates except for
  dates and times
* any precision issues (don't think there were any) with other integer types are gone, since only `int64` is compared with dates, whereas lower precision integers use `size`.

Anywho, here's the vbench results for this PR vs master:

```
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Test name                                    | head[ms] | base[ms] |  ratio   |
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groupby_int_count                            |   4.0247 |   4.0337 |   0.9978 |
groupby_multi_count                          |   7.5080 |   7.4813 |   1.0036 |
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Test name                                    | head[ms] | base[ms] |  ratio   |
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```