Update from Azpidatziak

git-svn-id: http://svn.vuze.com/public/client/trunk@40628 c2c1b7af-1477-405b-86ee-8aefd1fc4dd2
when force terminating make sure that any VM hook can't get blocked waiting for the 'stopping' event to complete

git-svn-id: http://svn.vuze.com/public/client/trunk@40629 c2c1b7af-1477-405b-86ee-8aefd1fc4dd2