Deduplicate Spree::Adjustment loads for performance

* Reduces the available object graph paths to access Spree::Adjustment
  instances to one.
* Reduces the amount of duplicates being loaded via performing in-memory
  scoping on associations.
* Significantly reduces the amount of lazy loads triggered within most
  order operations / populations through the elimination of duplicates.
@dkubb I think that having a `#restrict` method in the public API that is not present in ARs API is the perfect smallest step at this point.