Add ip address to the retry message and double the maximum retry counts

Change-Id: Icf7b28a8eff9c1c4b06da63cbe546aba68bab21a
Reviewed-on: http://review.couchbase.org/37053
Tested-by: buildbot <build@couchbase.com>
Reviewed-by: Li Yang <lichenyang2@gmail.com>