Add Tx/Rx multiqueue support to vmx(4)

As a prerequisite for multiple queues, the guest must have MSIX enabled.
Unfortunately, to work around device passthrough bugs, FreeBSD disables
MSIX when running as a VMWare guest due to the hw.pci.honor_msi_blacklist
tunable; this tunable must be disabled for multiple queues.

Also included is various minor changes from the projects/vmxnet branch.

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