added method that lets caller specify relation between spaced views

original method now calls the new one with NSLayoutRelationGreaterThanOrEqual as before

@ndonald2 I needed this functionality to have some labels display correctly when not pinning their widths; otherwise they'd shrink due to the >= relation of the spacing. This way I can set it to =
:+1: For @jkaufman's suggestion. Definitely a good way to do it. Also would benefit from some header docs.