(PUP-2738) - Refactor FFI memory consumption / usage

~~- Causes 14 test fails with Invalid Memory Object, so might
   be on to something here~~
~~- one of the MemoryPointer auto-free / block style calls has been
   removed from windows/file.rb ... resulting in 28 less failures
   need to investigate further~~
The trouble is that this code gets called as part of the logging system, so if you raise an exceptions, we will try to log the exception, etc.