If the start bit, PxCMD.ST, is cleared and nothing is in-flight then
PxCI, PxSACT, PxCMD.CCS and PxCMD.CR should be 0.

Reviewed by:	grehan
Restore spares used in "struct tcpcb" and bump "__FreeBSD_version" to
indicate need for kernel module re-compilation.

Sponsored by:	Mellanox Technologies
Clarify TSO segment limit comment and remove two TABs to make lines a
bit shorter.

Sponsored by:	Mellanox Technologies
Fix misplaced read memory barrier in seq.

Impact on capability races was small: it was possible to get a spurious
ENOTCAPABLE (early return), but it was not possible to bypass checks.

Tidy up some comments.