some rpm fixes #869

- don't strip binaries in cmake, rpm tools will do that
- put libs in separate package
- don't fail initscript if ulimit errors
Merge branch 'bugfixes/tokumx-1.3'
don't be fancy with rpm sources #869
Merge branch 'bugfixes/tokumx-1.3'
Merge branch 'master' into curopmonitor
Add back a line accidentally deleted