Added section banners; removed Sissy gender

Selecting gender with options other than Male or Female is
unexpected and causes complications in the menu process;
removed (with comments). Banners added to sections.
Multiple fixes and commenting

Commented multiple areas; fixed an RLV spelling error; other misc.
Updated and optimized add to list

Add/Rem Mistress and Add/Rem Blacklist code examined, defines
created, optimizations added.
Added WEAR_AT_LOGIN; tamed debug code; fixed bug

Bug existed where Transformation (random dress) took a LONG time;
fixed: related to a long notecard reading sequence. WEAR_AT_LOGIN
option was added; relevant code is incomplete. Debug code was
excessive; tamed it.
Added WIND_DEFAULT

Added WIND_DEFAULT (1800.0 for now).
Updated to use STRING_END and NOT_FOUND...

Updated to use STRING_END and NOT_FOUND...
Updated to use WIND_DEFAULT

Updated to use WIND_DEFAULT (1800.0)
Memory allocation updated and revised

When scaling memory, code does two things: it will add a minimum of
4k, and will only take away memory if a minimum of 4k can be removed.
With these two changes, a fluctuating memory usage is possible without
a corresponding fluctuation of memory allocation - thus reducing the
calls to set the memory maximum.
Added defines; code added to prevent reset loops

Reset loops are a problem; code added to address the problem with
recovery. (Root cause needs to be determined and addressed.)
Defines added to help start to understand Reset and Startup process.
Added optimizations

Added optimizations with if statements and loop optimizations.
Updated configure with new defines and date

Updated configure with new defines (WEAR_AT_LOGIN and WIND_DEFAULT)
and date of key.