Add simple replace-by-fee logic to mempool.

Replaces transactions if a new transaction is seen with a higher fee,
specifically both a higher fee per KB and a higher absolute fee. The
fees are not calculated recursively; to avoid DoS attacks transactions
that have been spent will not be replaced.

Thanks-to Zeilap for code review and suggestions.
Set NODE_REPLACE_BY_FEE to let peers find us
Preferentially peer with replace-by-fee nodes

Tries to maintain 8 outgoing connections and reserves 3/4 of the
incoming connections for replace-by-fee nodes.
Log delta bytes
Fix economics of replacements

Previously bandwidth of prior transactions wasn't always being paid for.
Allow children to be replaced