API comment conventions

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I'm mostly trying to codify what we already have consensus on, rather than address every possible question. I can forsee this kind of RFC getting very bogged down in a number of different details, and we can always add more things in a future RFC.
@cgaebel you're getting quite aggressive, could I ask you to tone it down a little?