ISPN-4582 JpaStoreTest random failures

* Set threadCount to 1 in surefire plugin
ISPN-4474 ISPN-4473 Get remote events working in compatibility mode

* Fixes both ClassCastExceptions reported in these jiras.
* Adds remote event compatibility tests.
* Refactored remote event assertion code to be sharable between the
Hot Rod client tests and the compatibility tests.
ISPN-4655 Add missing package information for new Hot Rod packages

* This is required so that they are processed when generating
javadocs.
Change ReplicatedCHFactory to only replace leavers in updateMembers()

Uneven primary ownership should be dealt with in rebalance() only.
Delegate the isBalanced() check in DefaultRebalancePolicy to the CH factory

Allows waitForRehashToComplete() to work even if the CH factory allocated
less than numOwners owners to each segment.