boogied: add TLS support

The daemon now listens on 8443 for https connections.  Client
certificates are required but currently not verified.  This is a
pending TODO item.
boogied: make TLS optional
all: move from rpc-over-http to rpc-over-sockets

This splits the RPC layer away from the default HTTP server.  We can
then protect the RPC socket layer with TLS, and leave the HTTP server
for  unauthenticated monitoring (expvar, etc).
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