Changing stream verification to throw Http2StreamException.

Motivation:

Currently when receiving DATA/HEADERS frames, we throw Http2Exception (a
connection error) instead of Http2StreamException (stream error).  This
is incorrect according to the HTTP/2 spec.

Modifications:

Updated various places in the encoder and decoder that were out of spec
WRT connection/state checking.

Result:

Stream state verification is properly handled.
Master - Fix "=" character in HttpPostRequestDecoder

Motivation
Issue #3004 shows that "=" character was not supported as it should in
the HttpPostRequestDecoder in form-data boundary.

Modifications:
Add 2 methods in StringUtil

split with maxParts: String split with a max parts only (to prevent multiple '=' to
be source of extra split while not needed)
substringAfter: String part after delimiter (since first part is not needed)
Use those methods in HttpPostRequestDecoder. Change and the
HttpPostRequestDecoderTest to check using a boundary beginning with "=".

Results:
The fix implies more stability and fix the issue.