Fiery Comets: Support for AJAX responses with comets (shifted to master)

This is #1565 reopened with respect to `master`.

To support AJAX responses that send down comets, this PR actually
refactors a few aspects of comet creation:
 - `LiftSession` now has a new internal (private) API for finding or creating
   a comet. There are two variations of `findOrCreateComet`, one that takes
   a type parameter (`findOrCreateComet[MyCometType](name, html, attributes)`)
   and one that takes a string comet type (`findOrCreateComet("MyCometType", ...)`)
   The type parameter version uses manifests to allow direct instantiation of a
   comet without reflection overhead and without requiring the comet to be in the
   regular comet package if not wanted.
 - `LiftSession`'s comet-related code has been significantly refactored to
   eliminate duplication and make things a little easier to follow. Notably, there
   are still some anonymous subclasses of `CometActor` created for round-trips
   and streaming promises; those will be refactored to independent subclasses
   at some point, but I didn't do it in this PR.
 - Comet ID info (type + name) now has a (private) case class `CometId` to represent
   it in `LiftSession`.
 - The `CometCreationInfo` case class, which was in the `Templates.scala` file, is
   now in the `CometActor.scala` file, and is used pervasively to pass comet creation
   info around (before, we were using separate parameters in many places). This is
   still mostly an internal class, however.
 - Publicly, `S` has a new API for finding or creating a comet, `S.findOrCreateComet`.
   It works much like the `LiftSession` API, taking either a type parameter or a string
   that is a comet class's name. Both of the overloads also have a
   `receiveUpdatesOnPage` parameter that is defaulted to `false`. When set to `true`,
   it will automatically append the created `CometActor` to the page or AJAX request
   so that it will receive updates.
 - `S` also has a method for adding a comet to the currently rendering page or page
   that invoked the current AJAX callback, `S.addComet`. It takes a `LiftCometActor`,
   which you can get from `S.findOrCreateComet` if you don't have a direct handle
   to it already.
 - The internal client-side JavaScript API now supports aborting the current comet
   request, mostly in order to support restarting the current comet cycle. This is used
   when a new comet is received from the server to ensure the comet starts receiving
   updates immediately.
 - The comet snippet has been updated and simplified to work with these changes.
   It also now has a `containerForCometActor` method that is publicly available and
   lets you get the HTML container for any given comet actor. This lets you do your
   own work to create a comet container without directly invoking the comet snippet.
Ahhhhhhhh ok, after chatting with you I now understand how this error is generated. I didn't previously... read like something internal that the user couldn't fix. Perhaps this message could read...

> Couldn't find valid comet constructor for ${cometClass.getCanonicalName}. Comets should have a no argument constructor or one that takes the following arguments: (LiftSession, Box[String], NodeSeq, Map[String,String]).

How does that sound?