[SPARK-3516] [mllib] DecisionTree: Add minInstancesPerNode, minInfoGain params to example and Python API

Added minInstancesPerNode, minInfoGain params to:
* DecisionTreeRunner.scala example
* Python API (tree.py)

Also:
* Fixed typo in tree suite test "do not choose split that does not satisfy min instance per node requirements"
* small style fixes

CC: mengxr

Author: qiping.lqp <qiping.lqp@alibaba-inc.com>
Author: Joseph K. Bradley <joseph.kurata.bradley@gmail.com>
Author: chouqin <liqiping1991@gmail.com>

Closes #2349 from jkbradley/chouqin-dt-preprune and squashes the following commits:

61b2e72 [Joseph K. Bradley] Added max of 10GB for maxMemoryInMB in Strategy.
a95e7c8 [Joseph K. Bradley] Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/master' into chouqin-dt-preprune
95c479d [Joseph K. Bradley] * Fixed typo in tree suite test "do not choose split that does not satisfy min instance per node requirements" * small style fixes
e2628b6 [Joseph K. Bradley] Merge remote-tracking branch 'upstream/master' into chouqin-dt-preprune
19b01af [Joseph K. Bradley] Merge remote-tracking branch 'chouqin/dt-preprune' into chouqin-dt-preprune
f1d11d1 [chouqin] fix typo
c7ebaf1 [chouqin] fix typo
39f9b60 [chouqin] change edge `minInstancesPerNode` to 2 and add one more test
c6e2dfc [Joseph K. Bradley] Added minInstancesPerNode and minInfoGain parameters to DecisionTreeRunner.scala and to Python API in tree.py
0278a11 [chouqin] remove `noSplit` and set `Predict` private to tree
d593ec7 [chouqin] fix docs and change minInstancesPerNode to 1
efcc736 [qiping.lqp] fix bug
10b8012 [qiping.lqp] fix style
6728fad [qiping.lqp] minor fix: remove empty lines
bb465ca [qiping.lqp] Merge branch 'master' of https://github.com/apache/spark into dt-preprune
cadd569 [qiping.lqp] add api docs
46b891f [qiping.lqp] fix bug
e72c7e4 [qiping.lqp] add comments
845c6fa [qiping.lqp] fix style
f195e83 [qiping.lqp] fix style
987cbf4 [qiping.lqp] fix bug
ff34845 [qiping.lqp] separate calculation of predict of node from calculation of info gain
ac42378 [qiping.lqp] add min info gain and min instances per node parameters in decision tree