Enforce write buffer memory limit across column families

Summary:
Introduces a new class for managing write buffer memory across column
families.  We supplement ColumnFamilyOptions::write_buffer_size with
ColumnFamilyOptions::write_buffer, a shared pointer to a WriteBuffer
instance that enforces memory limits before flushing out to disk.

Test Plan: Added SharedWriteBuffer unit test to db_test.cc

Reviewers: sdong, rven, ljin, igor

Reviewed By: igor

Subscribers: tnovak, yhchiang, dhruba, xjin, MarkCallaghan, yoshinorim

Differential Revision: https://reviews.facebook.net/D22581